These wise words are by Roman Emperor/ philosopher Marcus Aurelius. We have a natural inclination to reject the emergence of difficult circumstances or events that do not appear to be amenable, but there is usually a lesson and opportunity for growth.
“True understanding is to see the events of life in this way:
‘You are here for my benefit, though rumour paints you otherwise.’
And everything is turned to one’s advantage when he greets a situation like this:
You are the very thing I was looking for.
Truly whatever arises in life is the right material to bring about your growth and the growth of those around you.
This, in a word, is art — and this art called ‘life’ is a practice suitable to both men and gods.
Everything contains some special purpose and a hidden blessing;
what then could be strange or arduous when all of life is here to greet you like an old and faithful friend?”
Quoted by Arianna Huffington in her book Thrive.
Statue of young Marcus Aurelius from Capitoline Museums, via Wikimedia Commons.