I was very struck by a recent communication from the Charter for Compassion, which summarised five critical ‘habits of the heart’ to sustaining a democratic society. As I read through them they seemed intuitively right. See what you think:
- An understanding that we are all in this together.
- An appreciation of the value of “otherness.”
- An ability to hold tension in life-giving ways.
- A sense of personal voice and agency.
- A capacity to create community.
I consider this in the context of some of the related current symptoms of what needs to change in the West today (same numbering):
- Gross inequality. Many live like kings while large numbers struggle to survive.
- A fear or rejection of other races, nations or groups of people.
- The immediate setting of hard boundaries when there is tension, eg Catalonia today.
- The attempt by so-called leaders to suppress people expressing dissent, numerous examples.
- The polarised divisions in many leading countries eg USA.
The five habits are detailed more at the website of the Centre for Courage and Renewal, and originate from Parker J. Palmer’s book, Healing the Heart of Democracy: The Courage to Create a Politics Worthy of the Human Spirit (2011)
Note that these are habits ‘of the heart’ – it is after all a change of heart that is needed in the majority, starting with me and you. Where else?